Is my girlfriend cheating on me? – 5 signs your girlfriend may be cheating on you

In this age, men and women are working more closely than ever: they occupy the same space, they move in the same social circles, they have more or less the same position when it comes to morals. Seduction is the new game, the more forbidden, the more exciting, and promiscuity is on the rise.

It’s no wonder then that while 70% of men admitted to wrongdoing, women are not far behind and 65% admit that they too have cheated on their partners at one point or another.

That’s an alarming statistic and it would certainly make you wonder how adventure-proof your relationship is … especially if you’re starting to get the nagging feeling that something isn’t quite right in that area.

Contrary to popular belief, men are actually very perceptive. So if you feel a twinge in your stomach, here are some nudges in the right direction to tell you whether or not you have reason to be alarmed:

1. You bought a new set of sexy lingerie … And you’ve never seen it.

For a woman, the beginning of an affair is no different than the first days of any relationship; the most exciting part is how her new boyfriend makes her feel sexy and wanted. To fuel that flame, you’ll want to look your best. If your girl is cheating on you, overdoing a makeover could be a piece of the puzzle.

But the most obvious evidence will be in the lingerie department. Are you racking up the bill for some Victoria’s Secret lace items? Be suspicious if you’ve seen the bill but not the sexy underwear. Or at least, you haven’t seen it in her while they’re together.

2. Carry your cell phone everywhere. Everywhere.

Obviously, she’s waiting for boyfriend number 2’s call. But there’s more to it than that. The first blush of romance is always the sweetest and it is this kind of attention that tempts women to stray.

So if they’re getting flattering “other guy” text messages, they’ll want to fully savor it, meaning they won’t delete those incriminating messages until absolutely necessary. Yes, even if that means they would have to be extremely possessive of their cell phone, it’s pretty obvious.

3. She is always watching you.

He wants to know where you are and especially where you will be in a few hours. Do you think it’s sweet? Think again. If your girlfriend is suddenly very interested in the smallest details of your daily itinerary, she may be programming hers around yours. He couldn’t risk bumping into you while spending the afternoon with boy number 2.

4. But she doesn’t want you to watch her.

She seems very interested in how you are going to spend your day, it would seem logical to return the favor and show some interest in hers right? Wrong, if he’s cheating on you.

You will notice this in the way she answers your question: she will be either on the defensive (babbling her excuses) or she will be on the offensive (accusing you of not trusting her and with variations of the same line of argument).

5. She used to be crazy about you in bed. It used to be.

Has passion cooled? Could be. But most likely, that passion has passed with someone else. Is fall? Most likely. Women have a flair for drama, so it’s easy to believe that they are all native actresses.

But when it comes to sex, all of her acting skills evaporate. She could be torn between not wanting you and not wanting you to find out, especially if you are “a really nice guy who doesn’t deserve this from her.”

Sure, your girlfriend may still go to bed with you once the excuses run out, but you might also notice some strange things that would bother you when making love.

Was she indecisive? Was he discouraged by your burning? Do you have your eyes closed all the time? Did he call you by a different pet name? Did he turn down your cuddle attempt during the aftermath?

The signs are there my friend. You can choose to be blind to them or you can choose to use that organ between your ears and take control of the situation before they turn you into an even bigger fool than you have already been.