Bullying, History, Ethics and Healing

WHAT GIVES A BOY OR A GIRL THE RIGHT TO BEAT SOMEONE’S CHILD and who gives them the authority to take what is not theirs? I say that all forms of bullying must stop immediately. But wait, before we lash out at this scourge of society, we need to take the bull (no pun intended) by the horns and pull meat from where it came from.

Where did the bullying start?
Intimidation has been recorded at the earliest stage when we observed cannibalistic tribes attacking villages and preying on the weakest. We also see in the Bible where Goliath, who was the first recorded bully, tormented the Israelites. Moose, in Archie Comics, was feared by Archie, Reggie, and Jughead. Little Lotta was a stalker that no one messed with. In addition to the earliest acts of bullying, we can also see where it started in our modern world.

the monster in me
It is difficult to understand that these children were raised outside the homes of ordinary parents like us. No child was born without a parent or guardian and we must admit that bullying began at home.

When we take the Frankenstein analogy, (best-selling movie and book) he or should I say, ‘it’ was made by a man who wanted a single mate who could also protect him. All the concoction that was used to make this monster was precisely mixed and all went well until the monster decided that it no longer needed a master and killed its creator. I bring this up to say that when someone makes a monster they must be prepared to put it to sleep.

Please don’t ever think that I am telling people to harm or kill your child if it gets out of control, but we must watch for the danger signs to see what we do next. If you create a monster, you must be able to control its behavior. Don’t let your child go out in public and terrorize someone’s child. In this nation we face the most indestructible vices of the century, which is terrorism. Bullying is no different from terrorism when these teens and adults prey on the innocent among us.

The ethics behind bullying
A bully could be considered a universal adversary when we look at the rule of ethics. Robin Hood of Nottingham, who stole from the rich to feed the poor, and Spiderman, our friendly neighborhood hero who fought for the rights of others, are all kingpins for the right cause. But other bullies beat and rob people for no reason.

It is not even considered consequentialism since these actions do not save lives. It is an ethical approach to life that shows selfishness without any justification. How do we jump on the back of this terrible bull? Let’s see how to “put up with” this approach.

Saddling the beast
If you can’t stand this bull, we have to break his back. However, doing so is not easy, but when you look at the trend of stalkers, you will see their general pattern. You may find that most of these stalkers come from broken homes where the mother was abused or there was some form of substance abuse. Sometimes the child may be under pressure and the only way to vent her anger is to take advantage of someone weaker.

The trick that a lot of people don’t know is that bullies are real cowards. They behave this way out of insecurity and hide their emotion to suppress it. This action in psychology is called displacement. This is common for someone who comes to you first for money because he thinks you are going to ask him for it. By doing this, he distracts you or discourages you from asking.

In addition to identifying the source of the problem, we must also go to the home of these unfortunate parents to help ensure that the problem does not go untreated.

helping our parents
There are many counseling centers that can deal with all forms of abuse. The hotline is busy every day and anyone can call to schedule counseling appointments. The church is also a good ground for family healing. Go to the church of your choice and talk to a pastor who can help the child or family work through any lingering problems.

Let’s face it, bullying is terrorism and we need to stop it right now. We know that we have fed our minds with comics that entertain us and we feel good that being bad can sometimes be good but bullying goes much further. It is a sick wave that needs to be taken by the horns, saddled and ridden by society, broken by the standards of our personal ethics and tamed in our institution that prepares young people to be leaders of society.