How to attract women: the 5 questions game

You are at a party and you are introduced to a friend of a friend. She seems like your type of girl and you want to make a good impression. Start a conversation; Ask her about her job, how she meets your friend, and what she has planned for the weekend. You do one more little talk, but soon you run out of things to talk about.

Has this happened to you? Have you ever felt like you are running through the routine “get to know each other” questions? One thing that many men don’t realize is how often men approach women and ask the exact same questions. It’s no wonder why girls don’t respond as much to small talk; They are sick of answering the same questions! If you want to get noticed, you need to change your approach.

Being able to carry on a conversation is not enough. You need to keep her interested, make her laugh, and enjoy talking to you. There are so many things you can do to liven up your conversations. A good way is to play some games with her to make your conversations fun. They can easily be incorporated into any conversation, making them very useful if you ever run out of things to talk about or have trouble keeping her interested. Here’s an example, it’s called 5 questions.

B: “Hey, I have a cool game to play.”

G: “Okay.”

B: “The game is called 5 questions. This is how it works. I will ask you 5 questions. If you can answer the 5 questions incorrectly, then you win; otherwise, I win.”

G: “Incorrectly? Don’t you mean correctly?”

B: “No, I mean incorrectly. For example, if I asked you ‘what planet are we on?’, You would have to answer ‘Mars’ or some other planet other than Earth. If you answer all 5 questions incorrectly then you win.”

G: “Ahhh okay, I get it. This will be easy haha.”

B: “Okay … First question. What color of dress are you wearing?”

G: “Blue”. (she is wearing a black dress)

B: “Oooo okay second question. Hmmm … what time is it?”

G: “Noon.” (it’s 9 at night)

B: “Okay, smart pants. Third question … What song is playing?”

G: “I kissed a girl!” (A song by The Killers plays).

B: “That’s good …” (Now do something that looks like you are momentarily distracted. If you are sitting and holding your phone, you may ‘accidentally’ drop it or you may notice that your shoelace is loose and bent. re-tie it. As he leans over to pick up the phone, he just dropped it casually, ask him …) “What question are we asking again?” (Your face should look like you’re trying to remember how many questions you’ve asked so far.)

G: “Oven”

B: “Haha I have you. I win.”

G: “Ohhh nooo I didn’t know it was one of the questions!”

If you seem really distracted when you drop your phone or whatever distraction you choose to use, nine times out of ten they will catch it off guard and they won’t realize that asking them what it is you’re doing is actually a question.

But what if she doesn’t fall in love and answers incorrectly? I hear you ask. “Question number one billion!” for example. Well don’t worry, you still have your fifth question to ask, remember!

B: “What question are we asking again?”

G: “Question number one billion!”

B: “Ohhh, you’ve played this game before, right? !!!” (When saying this, he must seem annoyed as if she has cheated. You can even give her a light push as if to say that she has cheated).

G: “Nahhhh, I don’t promise !!”

B: “Haha, I got it! You answered the fifth question correctly, so I win!”

This is a really fun game to play and it always works if you can do it naturally. To make it sound more natural, customize the first 3 questions to ask questions specific to the situation. You can even make it a little more interesting by betting on the fact that you are going to win. For example, “Okay, if I win, you have to get on the podium and dance to the next song!” Let her decide what happens if she wins.

Games are a great way to liven up your conversations! Give them a try and remember that the key is to have fun with the girl.